So, I had a pretty shitty week. Eh it happens. But we learn from the bad in life, and if we are smart we use the bad to create something good…like in my case it is art.
I had an audition yesterday, and it went well! I got chosen to perform for Vets on November 11th! How COOL! Performing makes me feel so, so happy! It makes me feel like I am changing the world, and giving people something as magnificent as laughter makes me know I am doing something right. Whenever I am performing, and I am doing well, I feel like I am on top of the world, like I am on this amazing drug, and nothing has ever made me feel that way. Maybe performing will always be my boyfriend LOL. No guy has ever made me feel the way I feel when I am doing well on stage.
Also, I am doing a shoot next Saturday for a pilot that my friend Sally Mullins is producing, it is a dating show! If you haven’t checked her out please do Sally is one of my favorite people ever! So fucking talented, and so fucking nice! Everyone loves her. This is her site: http://www.sallymullins.com
Hello- Los Angeles peeps & people from out of town! I run a local Los Angeles comedy show, at a really cool bar..called Club Privacy. It is quite close to Universal Studios. It is totally free, there is no drink minimum and there is free parking. This week we have Jerry Rocha headlining, he has been on Conan and Last Comic Standing. The show starts at 9:00pm. Here is a link to Jerry’s set on Conan: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=scqYWrcwp_s
I watched a documentary called Sluts, I found it on YouTube, and was instantly intrigued by what the females in it were saying. The documentary was about how some women are ostracized by their peers, allowing them to feel alienated, and somewhat hated. Many of these girls were victims of horrible rumors, and suffered emotional pain due to others harsh criticism.
One girl explained how unfair it is to call a woman a “slut”. Boys do not suffer the same scrutiny as girls in regards to their sexuality. A girl sleeps with many boys she is a “slut”, a boy does it and he is a “player”. What the fuck is that shit about? Personally, I do not care about how many guys a girl sleeps with, what I do care about is that she is being safe, using contraception, and not using sex as a weapon or a way to make her feel powerful. Than sex becomes unhealthy.
We need to teach our youth how to judge people based on the content of their character. Just becomes a female has a lot of sexual partners does not make her a “slut”, would you belittle a male for doing this? Probably not because society says its okay. He is just being a man!
One girl felt so bad that people were calling her a slut, because ironically she remained a virgin throughout her high school years. Another girl explained how she lived in a group home, and there was called a prude however she was called a slut in school. She could never win!
It saddens me to watch women put each other down, we need to stick together, and support one another, help each other rise! Putting another female down because of who she chooses to sleep with is not okay, and frankly it is not your business unless she is a close friend or relative and causing harm to her body, and surroundings.
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