I’m a target for idiotic men. They love to annoy me, and scream stupid shit at me, or just harass me, and its kind of irritating, but at the same time their stupidity makes excellent writing material.
The other day I was walking, and some random guy was like “hey can I have your number so we can hang out sometime?” and I was like no! lol. In my head I was thinking I don’t know you, I’ve never interacted with you why would I give you me my number? It came across as rather creepy, and I personally do not like to be approached by guys, I like to be the one calling the shots.
Whats my point?
Dating is a lot like selling, because you are selling yourself. If
Don’t be the pushy salesperson that everyone tries to avoid, but be the sales person selling what people need. If you like a girl, or have interest, or want that number, don’t appear pushy, desperate, or creepy. Strike up a regular conversation with her. For example, if you see a cute girl at a grocery store, ask her a random question about whats in her basket, or shopping cart, ask her if she likes a particular product, it sounds silly but it could lead into a conversation. Literally going up to a girl and asking her for her number is weird.
If you’re interested in a girl, and you just met her, but you have been communicating on a friendship level, please BE STRAIGHT UP, and tell her. If you wanna get the girl don’t act like a damn friend.