Now that I am approaching my late twenties, I am noticing a trend among my female peers, they are becoming desperate to tie the knot. The frightening 30 is just around the corner. They are desperately trying to find “the one”, the perfect dude that is going to give them an over-priced piece of jewelry to showcase his never ending love for them. They are going to have an expensive party and live happily ever after. Yeah, okay, call me bitter or a bit too snide, but I do not relate to these females. I understand that women were designed to want babies, and our chances of getting pregnant weakens as we age, but I do not comprehend this idea that we have to just find someone quick and boom get married. Personally, I am not mature enough to handle marriage, and I have never dated someone yet where I thought to myself “hmmmm I want to have sex with you for the rest of my life and love you forever”. It just hasnt happened yet and I am not marrying someone until I know I am hopelessly in love with them. I dont settle, I am too fucking stubborn. I am also not insecure about my age, because I think women get hotter in their 30’s and 40’s. How can you compare Sophia Vergara with Ariana Grande? Angelina Jolie to Megan Fox? I think Jolie is sexier.
I still look like a baby. People always think I am like 19 or 20. I am not sexy or hot. I am still just cute. I think I will get more attractive and womanly as I age. Maybe then I will be ready for marriage, right now I am just dating and finding myself. I believe in getting married for the right reasons, not because you think you will be alone forever if you dont, or because you think your looks are about to expire and you need a husband, or wife.
Another reason why people foolishly get hitched is because they think they don’t have other options. I am serious! There are billions of people in this world and there is at least a few that want to date you.
Anyways, I am a stubborn, sassy girl and I don’t believe in making a life changing decision because of silly reasons! What are your thoughts on marriage?