Your FAT!

You know that three letter word people often get their panties in a bunch about? NO, I am NOT referring to sex. I am talking about fat. Women around the globe are constantly on a diet, because they look in the mirror and see a fat girl. Do not get me wrong, obesity is a growing epidemic and can perpetuate a number of health problems. The keyword there is health, and the majority of women are not diets for health purposes, their primary motivation is to look better.

This is where the problem arises. I think all women should remove the term FAT from their vocabulary. Never resort to labeling yourself such a repulsive term, because it will only fuel your insecurities. Instead face the problem, and come to terms with the fact that you are over weight and need to shed some pounds. You are still sexy and worthy of people’s respect. Nobody should discriminate against you, or make you feel inferior because of a number on a scale. 

Look in the mirror and pick out what you like about yourself. Then decide upon what you would like to change, and figure out a POSITIVE way to do it. Do not starve yourself, go on some bizarre, wacky, stupid ass diet or attempt to conquer a difficult exercise regime when you can barely do 15 minutes walking on the tread mill. 

You will never look like any other woman, EVER. You are one of a kind; there are no replicas. Isn’t that awesome? Why would you want to look like another woman, when you are amazing? You will never be perfect, because that just does not exist. 

You are already sexy, you only want to lose weight to improve your health, it is not all about appearance. Beauty fades. 

What are your thoughts!

Advertisements

Why Do Women Fall In Love With LOSERS?

I repeatedly ask myself this question, because I see it to often. Intelligent, attractive women with their shit together getting themselves into relationships with men that will probably never amount to anything. I do not understand why these women try so hard to remain in an unhealthy situation. I am independent by nature, I do not need a boyfriend to make me feel confident, complete, beautiful, happy or for any other reason. I am quite the catch, therefore my standards for dating are incredibly high and I am rather snobbish at times- I do not give a shit. The pick of the litter does not settle for a runt. So why do these other women settle? They have so much going for them; why don’t they aim higher.

One reason why some women settle is because of the obvious reason any shrink will tell you- they lack high self esteem. They think the dipshit they are dating is the only man they can ever get and fear being alone. I have women that stay in relationships with a guy that belittles them about their weight, calling them “fat”, tearing them apart like they would an enemy; is that how you treat someone you love? If I was dating a guy and he called me fat, I would kick his ass to the curb so fast his head would spin. You should be in a relationship with someone that lifts you up, not brings you down. 

The second reason is they are too kind. You should be a genuine, loving person however this type of attitude can attract manipulative men, that feed off your kindness like a parasite. You are not a mother and you are not there to put him together; he is not a puzzle. If you are with a guy that continuously  makes bad decisions, chances are he will for the rest of life. He is immature and clearly cannot grasp the concept of “I fucked up this time”, I learned and I will use my mistake to make myself grow. 

They are intimidated by their equal or someone they believe is superior to them. I am not going to sugarcoat the truth. I do not care what Hollywood says, wake up and smell the coffee- THERE IS A LEAGUE ZONE! People like dating/ falling in love with someone who is like themselves. If a woman is an attorney, attractive and has her own home, why the hell would she date a guy that makes 24k working as a Subway manager? The reality is she probably would not even consider dating him, unless he was in med school or working towards something better. I am not trying to put anyone down, I am just explaining that we like to be with someone who has similar traits as ourselves. I truly believe that some women date losers, because they fear getting challenged by their equal. Someone that is not as successful, intelligent or attractive will make them feel safe. 

They are serial daters. Like a serial killer that targets specific victims, serial daters want to be in a relationship with the same type of men over and over and over and over!! I was a serial dater, but for an odd reason; I knew if I continuously dated the same kind of guy it would never work out. I like being in control and I can never fall in love with any of the guys I dated. Women that date losers get used to being with the same kind of guy, and do not know how to venture out to find something new. 

What do you think?

Three Kinds Of Rich People

There are three different kinds of rich people:

1. Ones that gained their wealth due to education; they are doctors, lawyers, CEO’s of companies etc. For the most part these are the worst types of rich people because they believe the world owes them something for trying so hard to get through an immense amount of tough schooling. They can be snobby, self-centered all around pricks. Are they all like this? Of course not! That would be over generalizing and that is not fair. I am just saying in my personal experience these are the snobbiest.

2. Self made millionaires. These are my absolute favorite, because these are the ones that busted their asses doing nitty gritty work in order to make it to the top of the ladder. These people never saw anything beneath them, and utilized their creative abilities to gain more cash. They are innovators, dreamers and usually think outside of the box.

3. They came from a wealthy family. These types of rich people are often envied because they did not have to anything but pop out of a vagina to gain their wealth. They got lucky. They got extremely lucky. Sometimes they are spoiled and appear oblivious to the rest of society, because they cannot relate to people that are not as lucky.Image